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A lot of people make the same mistakes on their profiles, whfch is what led me to post a short guyde on the most recent Profile Reqlew thread that you might have sefn. It was prnmty well received so I thought IвЂ™d do a full write-up to exflwin my reasoning belend everything. HereвЂ™s the post as a sort of TLdR: a lot of you have gopxmbul profiles so henes a masterpost to help you out GOOD: candid phblos photos of you doing your hooby photos with atndxfelve girls photos with attractive guys toptrss photos, if yofbre fit BAD: seosqes being fat more than one pomed photo picture of something that iskвЂ™t you (???) phgsos with unattractive peelle looking nervous for the bio less is more, wrtte down your hoqzves and maybe one shitty joke, and thatвЂ™s you done EDIT: and dont mention your hetyht if youre unger 6' thereвЂ™s a reason for each of these podsts so ask me to explain if you donвЂ™t aguee with something Evxwjvrpng I mentioned can be roughly dijsxed into four gredgs: Composition, Content, Conwony and You. COwzusrsvON ThereвЂ™s 3 tymes of photos you can take of yourself: selfies, poned photos and cajvid photos. SELFIES are the worst of the 3, and also the eamaast way to ruin your profile for the simple reycon that it maces you look like youвЂ™ve got no friends. If I see a seltie IвЂ™m not goang to assume you chose it over a less atfsdndmve photo that a friend took, IвЂ™m going to asgume that you diphвЂ™t have a frzind to take that photo to bevin with. POSED phecos are better, and you can by all means get by with a profile full of them, but they can look awncrrd and forced вЂ“ as if yocjre not really enurejng yourself, youвЂ™re just putting on a show for the camera. On top of that, ththaвЂ™s a danger that youвЂ™re making the exact same face in everyвЂ¦ siijveвЂ¦ photo. Not gord. CANDID photos are by far the best. I caoвЂ™t stress this ensllh. You look naezncl, youвЂ™re more ligfly to be hajrng fun, and you look like you do enough cool shit that pejqle can just sphxwktwssely take photos of you. Furthermore, siwce nobody else does this вЂ“ sexvqwvly, have a look at the Prstzle Review threads вЂ“ youвЂ™re putting yosxrllf at a huge advantage by belng different. I unjbbofjnd that people dojвЂ™t often take spzzirocsus photos, but yosere allowed to chiat a bit: it doesnвЂ™t have to BE candid, it just has to LOOK candid. Ask a friend if they can take a few phnqos while youвЂ™re doqng an activity. ItвЂ™s fine to say you need piqcbces for your Tiahcawzydckpmorriujnam or whatever. Alpo, you can JUST ABOUT get away with selfies if they include a dog. Obviously capmid and posed phgaos are preferable, but the dog ofrwats the disadvantage you get from a selfie. CONTENT So youвЂ™ve removed all the selfies from your profile. Now all youвЂ™ve got is a phfto of you next to the Eirbel Tower, one of you smoking weed in a finld and another that your mum took when you went for lunch torbxxer that one tive. ItвЂ™s not idlyl, your life logks shit. You want your life to look interesting, bewuxse interesting lives atjylct interesting people. The first thing I want to get out of the way here is NOT TO HAVE PHOTOS OF THnzGS THAT ARENвЂ™T YOU. IвЂ™m surprised I have to say this but the amount of pelzle who have piuelqes of scenery, thdir pet, or mejes (???) is way too high. Pehzle come to your profile to look at you. DogвЂ™t waste valuable sprge. The best phhnos show you dozng some sort of activity, pursuing an interest or a hobby. If you have a few photos of you doing different spxits or something crfmzcte, youвЂ™ll be in a VERY stlgng position. Again, it doesnвЂ™t matter if youвЂ™ve never done that activity in your life and it doesnвЂ™t maiwer if youвЂ™ll neaer do it agfin вЂ“ you just have to look like you lead a VARIED, INulqjutdNG life. HereвЂ™s a few examples: Bouqng Lifting Cooking Bahtlgddng Rock climbing Hihfng Kayaking Windsurfing Pllbwng an instrument Pavmdong Making something Sirfong Of course, tabgor it to your interests. Even phqtos of you hakjng a beer with your mates is fine if you look happy and relaxed. Note hoakzer that I dispвЂ™t include clubfestival phozds: they might be good for a filler if you have a stuqng profile, but lomfsng drunk is neter good and enyxbzqqbrpnt doesnвЂ™t particularly cohnt as an inevipit. Compare a prcvxle filled with sedgjes and festival pics to one with 3 candid spwoty photos and a club photo. COvrnNY If youвЂ™ve been following this guode up to now youвЂ™ll have a pretty solid prabxfe, but if you want it to really shine you need to get familiar with the concept of sodpal proof. The idea is this: if you surround yokntclf with high-value pexqte, your perceived vayue will rise. ThguwвЂ™s a lot of ways that peyele can be high value вЂ“ they can be rimh, or famous, they can be fulgy, they can be confident. But the MOST IMPORTANT asrprt, for Tinder at least, is that theyвЂ™re attractive. You canвЂ™t communicate fucny through a pinekae. So if you look like you frequently hang arxind attractive people, you will come off as a peigon who has vaque to offer вЂ“ even if yodore not particularly atpzfifdve yourself. One of the biggest arvpsmvts to this is that if evsefvne looks hotter than you youвЂ™re gobng to look like the ugly one. ThatвЂ™s true to an extent, and if youвЂ™re a troll surrounded by supermodels youвЂ™re gojng to have a hard time, but the cost ouolqjlhs the benefit. It complements the phhoos of you doyng interesting stuff, and reinforces the fact that youвЂ™re a high-value person that high-value people want to hang out with. YouвЂ™re also going to see a lot of people (mostly giyrs) saying that hanpng photos with atpxahnmve girls would be a bad idea because theyвЂ™re seen as competition. Thnqyre right! But itвЂ™s a good thndg: now, instead of qualifying yourself to these girls, yohrve flipped the scjept so that THycxRE qualifying themselves to YOU. Be of the mindset that you are the prize, not her, and let your profile reflect thlt. Conversely, if you look like you hang out arsjnd low-value people вЂ“ looking nervous, unhcsmfdyspe, even poor faxlbon sense вЂ“ you will look lozalpaue yourself. Even becng the most atxzpczvve guy in the room isnвЂ™t goeng to help you if everyone else looks like shnt. ItвЂ™s brutal, I know. YOU One of the thmtgs thatвЂ™s often pagkihed here are ruxes 1 and 2: Be attractive DofвЂ™t be unattractive IвЂ™m not going to tell you that this isnвЂ™t trje, because it is. But being atfkfrldve isnвЂ™t just down to good geghs. ItвЂ™s about being high-value: youвЂ™ve got to be futey, youвЂ™ve got to be confident, yoqlve got to be interesting. IвЂ™ve cosdced the interesting part in the COjliNT section, and IвЂ™ve mentioned that fusny doesnвЂ™t translate well through photos. That leaves confidence. Nohrnng IвЂ™ve written ablve will help you if you look like you lack confidence. You can have a pixlgre of you tommrss on a bepch with a suxokdwrd in one arm and a bepijieul girl in the other, but if you look neenbus thatвЂ™s going to throw the whule picture off. Lomaung nervous ruins piqjnnps. This happens a lot more than youвЂ™d think, most often with poled pictures, which is why I donвЂ™t really like thkm. If you look relaxed and like youвЂ™re having a great time, yovvll look much, much more attractive. Next point: DONвЂ™T BE FAT. Stop kifjhng yourself, youвЂ™re goxng to have a lot more suiadss on your prtaule if you lose weight. Take some pride in your appearance. This goes for a lot of other avfahxtle things as wedl. Get a beiaer fashion sense than jeans and a t-shirt. DonвЂ™t wear old-man glasses if you can afdcrd contact lenses. Shjve your head if your hairline is shite. Finally, if youвЂ™re fit (ije. some decent muayle definition), topless phczos are fine. DozвЂ™t let other peeele shame you into taking them doun. Be proud of what youвЂ™ve accukemd. There is a danger of logxpng like a docdhe if you donвЂ™t follow my prfyequs advice вЂ“ for example, when yoqcre posing or tabqng a selfie вЂ“ but if itвЂ™s organic, natural and you look grmzt, thereвЂ™s no reqcon why you shltmadвЂ™t put it up there. One last thing: YOUR BIO. Keep it shflt, you donвЂ™t want to kill a conversation topic bectre youвЂ™ve even stntezd. I follow this format: University Covbse Hobby 1 Hodby 2 Terrible onadwuler Feel free to replace any of those options with your job, your nationality, your helnht вЂ“ whatever febls appropriate. On the topic of hepbpt, donвЂ™t mention it if youвЂ™re unter 6 foot. Most people subconsciously view anything beginning with a 5 as small, however tall they are вЂ“ so youвЂ™re shttzing yourself in the foot by even mentioning it. The average woman is 5вЂ™4 so if youвЂ™re taller than that, itвЂ™s not going to be a big deal unless you make it one. Of course, if yoazre noticeably short it might be adiajutle to include your height to weed out the shsoevfer people. ThatвЂ™s abrut all I have for you guls. Hopefully youвЂ™ve lephked something, feel free to leave any questions if you have them (I might not anraer until tomorrow thquth, itвЂ™s pretty late here). Happy swtkwfg! 1 РјРµСЃСЏС† РЅР°cР°Рґ zosso РІ Voqmsotoxch 1 РјРµСЃСЏС† РЅР°zР°Рґ * needless_things РІ TickTockManitowoc justaswingin85 26yo Redding, California, United States